The negative program will take over control on children and ruin their future. If only you are willing to evaluate yourself, we may already so something wrong in our parenting style. If you growth your children with hate then they will learn to fight. If they raise with insulting then they will learn to always regret themselves. On the contrary, if your parenting style raises children in tolerate environment then they will learn to control themselves. If they get used to feel secure then they will learn to trust. Any parenting method that we apply will affect their personality.
Most of you may worried or disturbed when your children seems ignore or not listening to your word. In fact, you need to far worry that they always look on you and put every act that you make as their role model. That is why you better watch whether you have already applied the right parenting style. Every word that out of your mouth and every behavior will be potentially affects them. They learn without communicate. They see by learning and record our daily behavior. That is why you need to watch on your behavior because it is the main parenting style that will be recorded by children.
Parenting actually is the character building. It will be highly depend on us what type of character that we want to build in our children personality. The best parenting style is the role model or great example that will be seen in every sentence or behavior. When you are showing that your respect your spouse or other people then they will imitate this respect action in their future. From the very first, children will learn from their closest environment like parent or teacher. Be aware of negative parenting style that we applied because children will absorb it without our consciousness.
If you want to know whether you parenting style is already on the right tract or not then you can easily seen from your children first preschool or kindergarten report book. That first report is your report not them. That is the best way to see how is your quality in parenting and teaching your children. Your parenting style succeed will also can be easily seen when your children get older. Their way to behave, get along with their peer is the way they see you. Be wise and smart to choose parenting style and method that properly applied!