During the developmental stages, children usually try to make their own choices. They will gain rapid motor skill changes. Not only physically changed, they are also developing their emotional condition. This is the fact that makes the period during this development moment becomes challenging both for the provider and children.
When you are dealing with whining daycare child, be sure that you can give proper reaction. Never show any negative reaction because it will only make it worse. Even if you are trying to ignore, they will likely try to stop for a while and looking or another way to make you stress. This is the most challenging time since your reaction will lead into better or worse condition.
If you feel so stress and near to anger then you better take a deep breath and get out from the room. Give yourself few moments so that you can calm yourself. During your calming moment, you should make sure that children will be safe anywhere they are. Keep remind that it is only a normal phase that all children need to pass.
Basically, children are whining to get adult attention. It will also another way to express what children want since they do not know how to express their willing. When they get calm, you can try to teach them to communicate and express their feeling. Lately, they will understand how to do an acceptable manner. Finally, both of daycare provider and children will have an effective communication.